A self-guided workbook by Mark Flory

What if you didn't have to keep proving your worth?

Notice the stories behind self-doubt. Explore the patterns that keep you seeking approval. Practice making choices that reflect what matters to you.

Begin with the free Module 1 preview of Beyond the Mask: Reclaim Your Power of Choice.

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20-page fillable PDF · Type or print · No purchase required

Beyond the Mask workbook cover featuring an ivory mask with gold cracks
The P.I.E.R. Method
Private reflection, at your own paceGrounded in Adlerian ideasPractical prompts for everyday life
Does this sound familiar?

You can accomplish a lot
and still question yourself.

Sometimes the hardest part is noticing the meaning you've attached to an experience: what a setback, someone else's success, or a moment of needing help seems to say about you.

This workbook gives you a structured place to examine those interpretations and consider a different response.

  • I should be further along by now.
  • If I can't do it perfectly, why start?
  • What if they realize I'm not good enough?
  • Who am I without the thing I was good at?
The path through the full workbook

Four steps. More intentional choices.

The P.I.E.R. Method connects reflection with small actions you can practice in your own life.

P

Pause and
Recognize

Notice what happened and the story you told yourself about it.

I

Identify
Your Pattern

Explore familiar beliefs and strategies that may influence your response.

E

Embrace
Authentic Striving

Consider goals that express your values rather than measure your worth.

R

Realize Meaningful
Contribution

Choose ways to share your strengths while respecting your boundaries.

Start with Module 1 · Free

Catch the story.
Consider another choice.

The preview includes all of Module 1: Pause and Recognize. You'll find short lessons, Mark's pier-to-pier swim story, and three guided exercises.

  • Separate an event from what you made it mean.
  • Reflect on a manageable experience that shaped your self-image.
  • Notice familiar patterns in everyday situations.

Short on time? Read Lesson 1 and try Exercise 1.1 first. Allow about 20 minutes, then return to the rest when you're ready.

AN ILLUSTRATIVE MOMENT OF PRACTICE

Same event.
A different interpretation.

WHAT HAPPENED

I asked someone for help with a task.

THE STORY I TOLD MYSELF

“If I were capable, I wouldn't need help.”

AN ALTERNATIVE THAT FITS THE FACTS

“I needed help with one part of this task. That doesn't define my overall capability.”

The aim is to examine the story honestly, then consider a small next step.

Why I created this
Mark Flory

Author of Beyond the Mask
Creator of Chasing the Ghost

“Who am I when I'm
not the athlete?”

For much of my life, I measured my worth by what my body could do. When injuries took squash out of my life, I had to start asking who I was without it.

Beyond the Mask grew from that reflection, my studies, and the patterns I began recognizing in myself. Through Chasing the Ghost, I'm still practicing what it means to pursue meaningful goals without making the results a measure of my worth.

This workbook shares ideas and exercises that helped me look more closely. I'm still on the journey, too.

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A few helpful details

Before you begin

Do I need to follow Chasing the Ghost?

No. The workbook stands alone. You don't need an athletic background or prior knowledge of psychology.

Can I type into the workbook?

Yes. The preview is a fillable PDF, and you can also print it and write by hand. Save a copy to your device before entering your answers.

Is this therapy?

No. This is an educational workbook for self-reflection and personal development. It does not provide therapy, diagnosis, or treatment and is not a substitute for professional care. You can pause or skip any exercise that feels too heavy.

What happens after the preview?

You'll be invited to share feedback and hear about the full workbook. There is no obligation to buy. The full workbook contains four modules; this free preview contains Module 1.

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Educational content for personal reflection. Individual experiences vary.

Beyond the Mask is an educational self-reflection workbook. It is not therapy, medical or mental health advice, and it is not a substitute for professional care. If you are in crisis, contact your local emergency services or, in the U.S., call or text 988.